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Bullying
Bullying is repeated aggressive behavior that can be physical, verbal, or relational. Boys frequently bully using physical threats and actions, while girls are more likely to engage in verbal relationship bullying. The results are similar:
You are made to feel hurt, angry, afraid, helpless, hopeless, isolated, ashamed, and even guilty that the bullying is somehow your fault. You may feel suicidal.
Your physical health is likely to suffer and you are at a great risk of developing mental health problems such as depression, anxiety, low self-esteem, or adult onset PTSD (post traumatic stress disorder).
You are more likely to miss, skip, or drop out of school to avoid being bullied.
The most damaging aspect of bullying is its repetition. Bullies are often relentless, bullying over and over again for long periods of time. You may live in constant fear of where and when the bully will strike next, what they’ll do, and how far they’ll go.
Types of bullying
Physical Bullying
Hitting, kicking, or pushing someone, or even just threatening to do it.
Stealing, hiding, or ruining someone’s things
Hazing, harassment, humiliation. Making someone do things he or she doesn’t want to do
Verbal Bullying
Name calling
Teasing, taunting
Insulting or otherwise verbally abusing someone
Relationship Bullying
Refusing to talk to someone
Excluding someone from groups are activities
Spreading lies or rumors about someone
He’s in, harassment, humiliation. Making someone do things he or she doesn’t want to do
Why would someone bully you?
Research shows that about 25% of kids experience bullying, so you’re not alone. While there are many reasons by bullies may be targeting you, the main reasons are usually your physical appearance or social standing within your peer group.
You’re being bullied, remember;
Don’t blame yourself. It is not your fault. No matter what someone says or does, you should not be ashamed of who you are or what you feel.
Be proud of who you are. Despite what a bully says, there are many wonderful things about you. Keep those in mind instead of the messages you hear from bullies.
Get help. Talk to a parent, teacher, counselor, or as a trusted adult. Seeing a counselor does not mean there is something wrong with you.
Learn to deal with stress. Finding ways to relieve stress will make you more resilient so you won’t feel overwhelmed by bullying. Exercise, meditation, positive talk, muscle relaxation, and breathing exercises are all good ways to manage stress from bullying.